THERE IS A WAY TO BE GOOD AGAIN...

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"There is a way to be good again" is one of my favorite quotes to date and it's from the book The Kite Runner which I highly recommend that you read. The quote essentially means that we can always get back on track no matter how far we have gone off the tracks. 

In the kite runner, Amir witnesses his housekeeper's son Hassan get raped over a kite. Soon, he starts to develop guilt for not intervening in the incident and resorts to framing Hassan's father for theft in order to get him fired from his job as their housekeeper- his plans work.  Soon after, Amir's family flees to the United States due to the Insurgency in their country.


Many years later, he finds out that Hassan was actually his half brother! By this time, Hassan has been killed by the same boy (now a terrorist leader) who raped him as a child, and the same terrorist leader is now serially molesting Hassan's surviving heir. 
As an act of redemption,  Amir decides to go back to Pakistan to rescue his nephew- risking his own life in the process. 

 I think about this quote a lot and in my opinion, I believe it highlights the fact that we have the power to turn our lives around for the better- that the choices we make matter.  

"to be good again" points to the fact that goodness is perhaps our default behavior as humans. Frankly, I don't know if this is a fact. But it's definitely a school of thought that I would veer towards. 

Meanwhile, The kite Runner ends well; with  Sohrab, Hassan's son flying a kite on a field somewhere in the United States-safe- while Amir and his wife watch on. 

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